Question - Should I purge my female clothes? Maybe it will help me stop crossdressing
No, no, no, no! You should never purge!
Purging is usually a dramatic move, done in an attempt to stop/quit/swear off crossdressing. But as painful as the purging process is, it is ineffective in staving off the desire to crossdress. Personally, I think the desire to crossdress will never go away. It could be suppressed or fade with time, but it will still be there. Purging your female stuff is actually the easy part. The difficult part is being able to stay away from crossdressing completely, day after day. You may be able to suppress the desire, bottling up you emotions and urges for weeks, months, even years. But all it takes is a trigger and your crossdressing will come back with a vengeance. It is made even worse if you promised your partner or parents that your crossdressing days are over. Because you become stuck in a trap of your own making. Your partner / parents will be relieved to hear that you have stopped your "deviant" behaviour, but in your attempt to please them, you will feel even more guilty when you eventually fail to keep to your promise and dress being their back again.
If you don't believe me, just do a quick google and you'll find many accounts of crossdressers purging for various reasons, only to end up rebuilding their female wardrobe again. And the cycle repeats.
Further more, crossdressing isn't exactly cheap (unless you're fine with putting on a simple dress and wig). How much money did you spend to built up that collection of undergarments, dresses, blouses, skirts, heels, makeup, padding, wigs, etc? When that desire returns in a few months time, how much more are you going to spend rebuilding your wardrobe? Unless you've lots of spare cash, tearing down and rebuilding your wardrobe really isn't the best way to spend your hard earned money.
Hold your intent to purge. Instead, spend some time to reflect on the true underlying reasons for your guilt and possible solutions. Perhaps there is a need to take a course of action (e.g. coming out, or finding a special someone who accepts you, or rent a storage somewhere) that could allow you to indulge in your peculiar but harmless hobby.
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